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Invisible Girl Project and Sevenly Partnering to Save Girls in India

Posted by Brad McElya on Monday, 25 March 2013 in News

This week, Sevenly is highlighting the work of It’s a Girl’s grassroots partner, Invisible Girl Project (IGP)!
Specifically, every shirt that Sevenly sells this week will support the work of Invisible Girl Project’s partner in South India that has successfully rescued over 170 girls from being murdered, just because they are girls (this is female infanticide).  Through its partner, IGP has been able to have a significant impact in the lives of girls and women in the villages of South India

Through its partner, IGP has found it fundamentally important to first go out into the villages where infanticide is highest and form relationships with village families.  IGP’s social workers determine those families that are at highest risk for committing infanticide.  Knowing the cultural preference for sons, their social workers counsel the at-risk families, emphasizing the value and worth of daughters.

IGP also educates the mothers about healthy pregnancy, provides prenatal care, and helps create a bond between the mother and her unborn child.  Due to the high numbers of HIV/AIDS, tuberculosis, malaria and other such diseases, IGP provides medicine and necessary medical care for pregnant mothers who are infected.
When a baby is born, IGP’s social workers travel to be with the family.  If the baby is a girl, they are there to prevent anyone from taking and murdering her.

After a baby girl is born, IGP will “register” the little girl’s birth with the local hospital and with the government.  This not only legitimizes the baby girl’s birth, but it is also a deterrent to the families who may want to kill their daughters in the future.  In the event IGP finds that a family has murdered their baby girl, IGP pursues justice for the baby girl and files a criminal case against the perpetrator.  This is clearly the most dangerous and most culturally unpopular work IGP does.

In working to save and preserve a baby girl’s life, though, after a baby girl is born, IGP works with the family to ensure that the baby is growing and is healthy.  The social workers meet with the family at least twice a week, regularly weighing the baby girl, and providing vitamin “tonics” for the baby.

IGP also helps single mothers whose husbands have abandoned them for having a daughter.  IGP helps form coalitions for these mothers, so that the women are there to support each other emotionally and even financially.  Through these groups, IGP has helped village women to save money, using micro-finance initiatives, and even to start small businesses (such as raising goats).

Finally, IGP’s “Child Sponsorship Program” helps support the little girls it has rescued and their families.  IGP provides families with monthly food rations such as rice, lentils, and vegetables.  IGP also opens an interest-bearing savings account in the baby girl's name, for her to use on expenses she has after the age of 18, (such as higher education, trade training, or wedding expenses—but not dowry).
Please help further this work!  Your support allows IGP to go into 30 new villages this year and rescue even more baby girls.

Please go to www.sevenly.org/InvisibleGirlProject and purchase a shirt to help SAVE THE LIFE OF A LITTLE GIRL IN INDIA today! Visit IGP’s new website, www.InvisibleGirlProject.org for more info!

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Update from Mitu Khurana- An Ongoing Battle for Justice    Mitu's battle to save her twin daughters is featured in It's a Girl. We asked Mitu to write a post updating us on where her case stands in the courts and how her ongoing struggle for justice is going:    We are safe and away from violence. Otherwise in the courts, it's a long perhaps never-ending battle. The accused are rich and powerful. They have the powers to influence the authorities. I am very very far away from attaining my goal.    There are weak moments, when I feel it's a losing battle, because the accused are powerful and the system doesn't want women like me, who walk out and save their daughters. On the other hand it always favours people who are rich and powerful. It was the struggle against my husband which turned into a struggle against the whole system.   This woke me up. Things need to change at every level. It's no longer a personal fight, because now I am fighting the system, which does not want daughters, which does not respect women, which does not think of providing justice because of patriarchal attitude, and corruption.   Continue reading -->    You can demand justice for Mitu and other women like her by signing the petition demanding world leaders act to hold the Indian government accountable to enforce laws prohibiting sex selection and providing protection and value to India's girls. Sign and share the petition here.

College advocating for students to do porn!

I always talk about how we need to protect our children.  Now we need to protect ourselves from predators coming after college students!  Disgusting!

 

 

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‘Crowdsourced’ porn operator recruits students with taxpayer-funded school’s blessing

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Times are tough for newly-minted college graduates. The aggregated outstanding student debt in the United States is about $1 trillion, with an average debt of $23,300. Roughly 10 percent owe more than $50,000.
The situation has gotten so bad that the New York Federal Reserve is worried the student-loan bubble will drag down the housing recovery, because recent college grads can’t afford monthly loan payments.
As The College Fix reports, though, one enterprising entrepreneur has a solution: porn.

The University of Missouri apparently sponsored an hour-long talk last Wednesday by businesswoman Cindy Gallop on “crowdsourced porn.”
The Show Me State’s flagship, taxpayer-funded bastion of higher education advertised the event on its official campus calendar. Tickets were free to students (and $5 for the general public).
The talk was well-attended, notes The Fix. Somewhere between 50 and 75 percent of the audience looked college-aged.
In a theater a little over a block from the campus, Gallop told students that hardcore pornography creates false, unrealistic impressions. That’s bad. It would be good, though, if students join her “movement,” which entails making porn — respectable, humane porn — and hawking it on her website.
As Slate explains (and as Gallop detailed to the audience), Gallop’s business model goes thusly: wanna-be porn stars record themselves frolicking in “real world sex,” then submit the results to her site, Make Love Not Porn. Accepted footage goes on sale (actually a long-term rental). The price is $5. The site shares profits 50/50 with the stars of the videos.

Earning cash has never been easier, Gallop told the audience during her Mizzou appearance.
“It is an easy way to pay off student loans,” she added, according to The College Fix.
Essentially, then, Gallop offered undergrads a chance to participate in what amounts to a pornography consignment website in order to pay off student-loan debt. And she convinced the school responsible for that debt to advertise her pitch.
Somewhere, Hugh Hefner is slapping his head in awe and admiration.
Gallop also said that her dream is for her website to become something like Youtube or Facebook, only filled with porn.
“I want to socialize sex,” the entrepreneur declared, according to The College Fix.
Officials from the University of Missouri did not respond to The College Fix’s requests for comment.
You might be seeing Gallop speaking on or close to a campus near you, though.
“We want @makelovenotporn on college campuses all over the US — and the world,” Gallop has tweeted.
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Read more: http://dailycaller.com/2013/03/19/crowdsourced-porn-operator-recruits-students-with-taxpayer-funded-schools-blessing/#ixzz2OJeVEZLf

For Your Consideration

The struggle for Women's rights is a global movement that is gaining strides everyday.  I found this moving and wanted to share! :) Global Activism at it's best got a much needed bill passed to protect women in India.  

Bill on Crime Against Women Passes in India

5 Questions to Ask Your Kids About Their Online Lives

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tony-loftis/kids-and-social-media_b_2708514.html

Do You Like Me Now?

Do You Like Me Now?

HUMAN RIGHTS

Freedom of speech? Or controlling voices?

Egypt court bans YouTube Over Innocence of Muslims trailer

College Sugar Daddies?

UCF ranked among Top 20 schools where students seek 'sugar daddies'

We have gone from computer dating to this. I am sure if the students needed the money their parents would find a way to help. What's next? How do you really know who you are hooking up with? Are you really safe?

Cyberbullies use social media for slut-shaming

Photos and videos of girls engaging in sexual situations are released on Facebook or other social media.  The boys who post the images get a popularity surge, while the girls in the images are shamed in front of peers, educators and family.  Some of the photos and videos are taken without consent and schools are contacting authorities, but even after the images are taken down from the sites, the damage to reputation and  self-esteem lingers.  

http://www.npr.org/2013/01/07/168812354/online-shaming-a-new-level-of-cyberbullying-for-girls

Teens RISE!/ Teen Pregnancy Prevention Day

 "TeensRISE! is an Orlando-based, judgment free zone where teens are free to discuss life's pressures, temptations and obstacles. You only live once and our goal is to make sure you live your life safely, and to the fullest."

Had to pass it along as it looks to be an great initiative sponsored by the PPGO and a great fit for future service learning opportunities for Virtual Girls.

Memory Tricks! An Animation Project for/by Girls

Check out THIS cool project!! Leandra

Dreams of Vengeance

            Many of our thoughts or memories from middle school come with the thought “I’m counting down the days till middle school becomes a thing we can refer to in the past tense.” Then we all theoretically “move on” and laugh about all of those silly things that happened that were humiliating and relish in how fabulous we are now. But what happens when you have a daughter or a niece or a close family friend’s 13-year-old queer child who is going to school each day ashamed, insecure, or terrified of what the “popular girls” are going to put them through today? Do you sit and calmly reassure them that it will be better one day, or do you put on your “steel-toed ass kickers” and march down to that school?

            Ayun Halliday writes about her feelings as her daughter lives a similar experience in middle school. She talks about her “dreams of vengeance” for her daughter and the surreal and liberating experience it would be to tell-off Emma (the clique leader) and “totally shaming her into realizing what an awful person she’d become and all her friends were there to witness it”.

            Overall, most young people experience bullying at some point from elementary to high school, but technology gaps and advances look differently over time, class and geographic location. In the article “Mean Girls: Making it Through the Misfortunes of Middle School”, Halliday also discusses the differences in how relationships are formed and maintained with the advent of Facebook. She writes,

           

“Facebook can be a great reward for those of us old enough to wonder what ever became of all the folks we lost along the way. But thank God it didn’t exist when I was in middle school. Overhearing classmates chattering on about their in jokes, social hierarchies, and the many parties to which I’d not been invited was fun enough as it was. No need to compound the gaiety with an avalanche of photographic evidence.”

But it goes far beyond just photographic evidence reminding one how marginalized from the “in group” they were. Facebook and other social networking sites have transformed relationships, especially among the young people who use these sites most actively and regularly. The effects of being cast of being marginalized are exacerbated by repeated photographic evidence, by the ability for people to so immediately and readily “comment” on one’s entire life essentially. Now, groups of students don’t even have to be communicating with one another to collectively target another unfortunate teen.

            Once ridicule and humiliation happens now as it does over the internet, it cannot be forgotten or move past as readily as if it was not immortalized online. Pictures, statuses, clips, videos, conversations…etc can all be accessed at any point, by any computer theoretically and can never really be deleted or erased. “Screen shots” and the “save image” option make every decision, every fault, every wrong angle, every grammar mistake, every slip or accident subject to infinite mockery, which is a far different dynamic than any other generation. We may have been able to forget our misfortunes in middle school, but what about the future generations where technology dictates nothing can be erased and nothing will be forgotten?

Katy Perry, a voice for strong young women.

I just wanted to take a moment to point out how much I love the theme of Katy Perry's music. Her songs are fun, very catchy, and girlie. At first I thought she was just a new pop princess, til I saw the video for Firework.

The Effects of Insulin Pump Usage on Female Self-Esteem and Body Image

So this entire semester, my service learning project was devoted to trying to start a diabetes related non-profit. I finally had an interview with the executive director of the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, and all my dreams and hard work kind of combusted. :(

However, for my honors thesis, I created and conducted a survey about the effects of insulin pump usage on female self-esteem and body image. I used my diabetes blog to recruit interview participants. I was WOWED by the results. I was stressing about finding 15 women to participate. I ended up getting over 30 responses for women asking for my survey in less than 24 hours.

This showed me the true potential of the internet to bring people (and in my case specifically diabetic females) together. Additionally, it proved one of the points of this class: The women took the initiative to create media online which advanced their individual level of self-empowerment. Many of the women write their own blogs, or use diabetes blogs as a way of connecting. They found my blog and reached out to me. I spoke to women all over the U.S. and Canada, and they all told me intimate details of their lives.

I finally finished my final draft today, and hopefully I will submit it for publication (not sure where yet). But I could not have done this with out my technological competencies, and the compassion and knowledge of women like myself.

New Spider-Man and New depiction of Women

http://disney.go.com/xd/marvel/ultimatespiderman/

So the new Ultimate Spider-man series has taken a new spin on the female character. While they've continued with the whole, all super-hero women and their potential lovers must be well endowed, they've also made significant changes to attract a female audience. Mary-Jane Watson for one is no longer a struggling actress who won't fight against the powers that be, come they in the form of Super villain, government organization, or the news medias. Watson in the first few episodes makes it clear that she wants to be a reporter and fight the good fight by getting the real truth to the people. This is a lot like DC's Louis Lane, but Louis in her own right has been celebrated by many as being a super-powerless woman who still can command the masses.

Another addition to the spider-man set up is Spider-man's need for allies. Of his allies there is a specific White Tiger, who is a teen girl. While White Tiger is the only girl in the group of super heroes, she is also the only voice of reason. Instead of being controlled by her emotions as is typical of the female archetype, White Tiger is motivated by success and logos.

There's certainly a lot of ways in which this show can improve the way it portrays women, but I think its a step in the right direction. Especially for a cartoon aimed at prepubescent boys.

We CAN Do It... No Matter Who WE Are, No Matter Where WE Are!!

     I have been vastly and oddly intimidated by blogging (and social networking for that matter).  It is new to me, but throughout this semester, I had to dig deep to find the root of my fear. It is rooted in trust issues that I have been tirelessly working on in my personal / spiritual life and when it cropped up in my classes, particularly in this class, I was embarrassed to admit the fear, often paralyzed by the fear to the extent of inaction, and frustrated all the more.
     HOWEVER, although I have not embraced these new tools as quickly as I expected to, reading all the texts of this semester and getting involved with activism online has grown my trust in a 'seed to sapling' kind of way. I am so very encouraged by other women's struggles and successes in this same area of fear and trust.  Perhaps even more inspiring is to see and read over and over and over again about all these women and girls online who have enacted major change, fought or created policy and law, and mobilized mass amounts of people in the name of justice, freedom, autonomy, and rights for women.  In such a politically charged time as we are in, it is a huge comfort for me to know that actions are taken- and taken swiftly via the internet, social networks, blogs, and the like.  This was a great piece from Ms. Magazines blog that really drove home the political influence of digital media on women and girls and how it is truly empowering if we use it rightly.  I always thought I was not fearful at all about putting myself "out there", but discovering the fears, uprooting them, and following the lead of women enacting a "shift of consciousness" by using media has encouraged me to continue to "grow" and strengthen MY online voice and connect to others who wish to do the same :)

 Read about the "Future of Feminism" here!

Stripping for "Likes" Brings Objectification & Popularity to a New LOW!

     The more I get involved with Women's Studies my passion for activism grows.  It is no longer enough for me to just read an article, blog, journal, book, etc., become infuriated about the mistreatment of girls and women (or humanity at large) and do nothing.  I have been trying to take at least one action in step with each piece of news in which I find people (especially women and girls) are exploited, oppressed, or marginalized by others.  Ironically, as overwhelmed as I have been in the last few months, adding this to my plate seems necessary.  If all I do is study theory and then not apply the immediate application, or praxis (as I have been reading about from bell hooks) then I find myself feeling lost or at least way too passive in a world filled with obvious injustice.
     With that said, I get updates from Ms. Magazine's blog and this was one that I had to share with all of you. Capitalization ans commodification of girl's and women's bodies is not new, as this blog post points out, but using stripping "techniques" to gain "likes", sell clothing, and increase traffic to the companies FB page is really inappropriate! Please read the blog and either report them to FB as they DO violate the terms of FB (the blog points out) and /or call the company and demand they stop this advertising campaign that is ultimately hurting girls. 

MS. MAGAZINE BLOG

(click the link above to read the article)

Fantasy Land Expansion isn't without its princesses

I'm not one to criticize Disney. I've worked with the company and have come to love everything they do. In 2009 when this video was released, the proposed project stirred up quite the uproar. With the new park expansion having opened this year though its interesting to wonder about how these princess portray the roles of beauty and how closely the girls in the story board drawings resemble them. Is Disney aiding to the hegemonic ideal? It's a question to close to my heart for me to answer. So I'll let you decide.

Beauty Contraptions

So, I love this series. I thought I'd share in case anyone needed a pre-finals week Haskins splurge ;)

The hegemonic ideal through Tamilian Pop Song

So the above video is pretty funny and it works for the movie. The issue I have is one that is constantly being brought up involving how different races/ethnicities/etc. attempt to establish an ideal beauty image based on the hegemonic ideal. In the song the man describes that a girl should be fair and white to beautiful. The girl, while appealing, does not fit the village motif the movie song takes place in. I am not saying that she shouldn't have been made part of the movie. It is just interesting to note that the girl here satisfies the hegemonic ideal, and also the cultural ideal for this South Indian film.

Below is a rough and working translation of the lyrics.

http://aahsome.com/blog/why-this-kolaveri-lyrics-english-translation/

Media vs. Personal Connection

My generation, I've been told, can't handle f2f interaction. We can't develop a long form argument, can't write a formal letter or draft a resume, and we don't work very hard.

This is the impression I get, anyway, from people who talk about us. But the main thing I see in the way people consider my generation is the idea that we're all hooked up to tvs and video games 24/7. We can only shop online, we have hundreds of "friends" but never go out. Let me put this straight: that's not true.

I still have "real" friends, using the term in the sense that we see each other at least once a week. I am a master at the face to face conversation because I work at a customer service oriented job and I'd be fired if I couldn't talk to people.

This is what some people in my generation feel about tv:
http://www.viruscomix.com/page407.html

And some people use new media to develop personal brands:
http://video.televisionwithoutpity.com/player/?id=280418&dst=rss%7Ctelevision%20without%20pity%7C

so maybe we aren't a super generation. But, honestly, my grandparents didn't get kicked out of school for protesting the war. They probably didn't know what they were going to do with their lives either. So let's not pretend like we need to have it together at 21. Nobody really does.

"Who run the world?"

This is kind of an old video, and I'm not positive if it has already been posted, or if you've already seen it... but it's worth viewing twice!
One of my professor's showed this to my class the other day.
It's a "critique" on Beyonce's song "Who run the world". If you haven't seen it, it's good... take a look!

What Does Transgender Mean?

Such a heartwarming story about a father coming to terms with the reality that he doesn't have a son, but a daughter:

read

Welfare parents 'need to go to work'

Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy

I don't agree with Romney. In the words of Michelle Obama "Every mother works hard, and every woman deserves to be respected." Regardless of how he meant it, his statement that women should "have the dignity of work" makes it seem that stay at home mothers are just living in paradise and are not working because it is not outside the home, once again making housework seem trivial and unimportant.

Another misogynistic viral video

Another gem I found being passed around as funny on facebook.

http://www.viddler.com/v/a863f1fa

This woman is NOT very intelligent, clearly.  However, what kind of a partner, friend, or decent human being would post a video like this?  The answer is: a misogynistic jerk!  Videos like this belittle and demean women.  I find it annoying that so many people, let alone women, find this funny.  I feel deeply sorry for Chelsea.  I hope that some day she realizes how demeaning this video is. 

One of the other concerning aspects of this video is that is makes this kind of lack of intelligence "cute" and funny.  It sends a message to young girls that being stupid is cute and funny and socially acceptable.  Its yet another example of systeming misogyny, but even with that being said...it should not be socially acceptable to be more concerned with what your head looks like than the intellectual content inside your head.  It should not be socially acceptable to post videos like this online either. 

If only feminism spread as easily as ignorance.

Mean Girls

Kelly Osbourne and Christina Aquilera are both very talented women in their own right. The two have been notoriously feuding for years and it doesn't seem to be ending anytime soon. In an interview with Glamour magazine, Kelly calls Christina fat, and states that she would tell her that she is fat to her face. Why they are feuding is beyond me. In my opinion it is very childish, and when girls say hurtful things like that to each other it just makes it fair game for guys to be that mean to us. Kelly goes on to say that before she lost 50 pounds she would be made fun of and that even now she doesn't think of herself as skinny. If it was a hurtful time for her, maybe she should be a little bit more considerate not only for Christina, but for other women who might be battling weight issues who look up to her as a role model. Just a thought.


http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20586655,00.html?icid=maing-grid7|main5|dl3|sec3_lnk1%26pLid%3D152187

Pretty is a burden?

I have to admit, this article still has me on the fence about where I stand.  One part of me wants to say "F*ck you.  Stop complaining about the burden of naturally fitting the beauty stereotype and getting free sh*t all the time."  However, I realize some of that might be slightly bitter or maybe even...jealousy, if I am totally honest with myself.  My sister is exactly like the woman in this article.  She is pretty, bubbly, very fashionable, and have been obsessed with looking good since she started demanding only Big Bird diapers at the age of 2.  She gets a lot of complimentary stuff and upgrades, but people have also judged her severely before they met her.  Through high school a lot of people called her a bitch, simply because she was pretty.  When her male friends get girlfriends, they often are never allowed to see or speak with my sister again.  She is seen as a threat or something. 

There is no simple answer to this.  It is what it is.  Some people are considered "prettier" than others.  I can only imagine how much worse this is for teenage girls.  The pressure to be beautiful is extreme.  When girls naturally (or not so naturally) fit the beauty ideal, I don't think they deserve to be bullied, ostracized, or outcast by other girls.  I also find it disgusting that "beautiful" women get more free stuff for being beautiful. 

This, again, boils down to a problem in society.  Beauty, not brains, is what is ultimately rewarded for women.  This has got to change.


 


http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2OTuR9/www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2124246/Samantha-Brick-downsides-looking-pretty-Why-women-hate-beautiful.html/

A show for boys, but with a girl!

Just yesterday Nickelodeon premiered in the United States, "The Legend of Korra." The show targets boys aged 8 - 14, but features a strong female lead. While the shows predecessor, "Avatar: The Last Air Bender" featured a happy-go lucky male child, this show uses a female teen who in the first episode is demonstrated to be a "strong fighter, yet weak in mind." While this description is apt for the character, I think there will certainly be camps formed among feminists everywhere whether this is a good or bad thing. I personally think this type of character who is not all beauty, but is focused, is in fact a good thing, since the character isn't portrayed to be that pretty at all compared to other Avatar females. Still I'm sure the debates will begin. So let them begin.

A new way to protest

I found this article interesting. While many people see the escort profession as one that demeans women, these women are using their services (or lack thereof) to enact change.

A flawed message to teenage girls

I keep seeing this article on my facebook feed.  I agree with 9 out of the 10 points she makes, but the first point she makes is flawed.  I understand what she is trying to say, but I think Kate is feeding the slut vs good girl dichotomy that divides women and perpetuates victim blaming.  I have tried in vain, to explain this to friends who post this list.  I have gotten blasted for "wanting" girls to be sluts and not understanding how vulnerable young girls are.  Yes, the majority of the article is about empowering young women.  Yes, there are too many teenage girls that wear low cut tops and mini-skirts specifically to attract boys.  The real problem is not in the clothes, its in the pressure for girls to impress guys.  Girls need to be empowered and have confidence in themselves, without society or boys telling them they are worthy because they fit the constructed idea of beauty.  The problem is societal, not a teenage girl problem.  Telling girls not to wear low cut tops IS victim blaming and its wrong, even with the best of intentions. 

http://kateelizabethconner.com/ten-things-i-want-to-tell-teenage-girls/

This article by Nicholas Kristof highlights how girls are trafficked by pimps and what we can do to change things...http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/18/opinion/sunday/kristof-where-pimps-peddle-their-goods.html

A new series for young girls.

I have been hearing a lot about this series about "Girls" a new series that is premiering on HBO tomorrow. Some people are billing it as a younger version of "Sex and the city". It looks more to me like a smart funny take on what average young women deal with. From the trailer I already love Lena Dunham's character of a sarcastic young women who is trying to cope with a life she did not expect at the age of 24. Something that I can equally relate to, when I was that age. Check out the trailer below, it looks to be an enlightening and realistic series for the modern young women.

Trailer: Keep it Up

Etsy Hacker Grants

Hacker School, a free 3 month long "retreat" to improve programming skills, is accepting applications for the summer session. The school is in New York City, and while there is no tutition to attend, living for 3 months in NY is expensive. Their current session has only 1 female student out of class of 20 and hope to see the summer batch at 50% female students. Addressing the gender bias in technology he has been troubled by over his 17 year career Marc Hedlund, VP of Engineering at Etsy.com, has helped created a $50,000 scholarship "Etsy Hacker Grants" for female students from to make attending Hacker School viable for more women financially.

Learn more about Hacker School and apply: https://www.hackerschool.com
Learn about the Etsy Hacker Grants, with a link to the application http://www.etsy.com/hacker-grants

the other war on women

The war on woman is a serious issue that we are dealing with. So it is wonderful to see a comedian like Stephen Colbert, take a humorous side on this issue while dealing a decisive blow to this damaging conservative view.

The Oppression "Time Machine" is at it Again....

I have been around for a few elections by now, and during an election year it does get ugly.  However, all the anti-women's / anti-girl's rights rhetoric and attempts (and some successes... unfortunately...) to pass outdated restrictive laws is just seriously burning me up!! Here is one that I discovered via my membership with /emailed action alerts from NOW:
http://action.now.org/o/5996/t/0/blastContent.jsp?email_blast_KEY=121627

I feel like it is an anti-choice bandwagon that people are jumping on left and right! Please join me in contacting your local representatives to STOP this antiquated bill that puts girls in danger of getting illegal, unsafe, or having no access to abortions if they need /choose... (it is also a Floridian woman who introduced this law again: . Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R-Fla.))


                     "TAKE ACTION NOW"
                                                                 http://action.now.org/

After reading CamGirls, I thought it would be interesting to do some research on the JennyCam, the first online cam girl. Jennifer Ringley set up a camera in her college dorm room to broadcast her life, her daily life, to anyone willing to watch. The JennyCam was a media sensation! People could log on and watch her normal every day life, read her journals, look at her pictures..when ever they wanted to. Jenny even had the cam on one night when she had sex! She was not trying to make porn; she was just broadcasting her life and occasional sex was part of her life.

The JennyCam shut down in 2004 after an eight year run for Jenny. So I was curious to see if anyone out there was brave enough to have a camera on in their life 24/7 in 2012. Well, I typed in Camgirls in the Google search engine. And what came back was rather shocking, or maybe not shocking, maybe expected in this day and age. There were 72,200,000 cam girl web sites listed! And almost every single one of them was for Porn!

So the age of innocence of the web cam is, has been obviously, over for a long time. The plethora of porn cam sites was overwhelming. How can any one person make any money at their cam site with 72 million sites to choose from? Jenny Ringley was a media sensation as she was not about porn, she was about real life. It is a shame to see that this part of the internet, the cam sites, has been reduced to total smut. And even if I did want to have a 'normal' life web cam, I would not want it listed with 72 millions porn sites! Could you imagine telling your friends to Google search for your web cam site and they being inundated with massive amounts of porn before they could find your nice site?

In an interview she gave at the height of her popularity, Jennifer Ringley told ABC news that she wanted to show people that what we see on TV--people with perfect hair, perfect friends, perfect lives-- is not reality. I'm reality.(Senft, 2008) And yes Jenny showed people that life is sometimes, most of the time, pretty boring. Not much really happens to us all the time. Sitcoms on TV make it seem like we have to be doing something all the time; entertaining friends, talking on the phone, getting dressed to go out, but never really being alone. Real life was in the JennyCam. Life is boring and it seems most of us are happy with our boring lives. I just wanted to say thank you to JennyCam for sharing her life with the world and showing us all that we too are indeed pretty normal.

Work Cited
Senft, T. M. (2008). Camgirls. (Vol. 4, p. 16). New York, NY: Peter Lang Publishing, Inc,.

http://www.fuelyourwriting.com/10-tips-for-writing-fanfiction/

This website is called Fuel for Writing.  This page is an excellent source of information if you have ever thought of writing any of your own fan fiction. The writer goes on to give tips on how to write good fan fiction, how to rate your fan fiction (ratings are important so that they younger people who read fan fiction do not get more than they bargained for!), and how you may feel about the praise or criticism you may receive from readers. I am not a fan fiction writer and I never knew anything like fan fiction existed until I took this course!

I peeked at a Hunger Games fan fiction site and was astonished to find 13,945 fan fiction entries on just one site! I looked a couple of the entries however, not having finished the final book of the Hunger Games, I will return after I know how the story ends to read some of the  fan fiction stories. I can see how, after a series is over, that a fan could hunger for more story; more story that the original writer never intended on adding to the series. This is where fan fiction comes in! One can immerse themselves in hundreds and thousands of fan fiction stories about their favorite characters or other characters and still enjoy the story line.

I personally find fan fiction an interesting outlet for writers young and old! And there was not gender placed on who can write fan fiction in the article. Check this out if you think you might want to indulge in fan fiction! Or maybe you already do!

http://www.bizcommunity.com/Article/196/424/69100.html

I found this online site BizCommunity.com which is a daily industry news site. This particular posting was very interesting in that it related to the readings this week in Instant Identity Chapter 5, and Girl Wide Web 2.0 Chapter 13. This sited talks about the different ways that the businesses can increase their business in the coming year(s) according to the changing habits of the consumers; the consumers being the youth market.

 I found the marketing plan, Number 2, to put the brands in the games that are downloaded and played on the smart phones a rather interesting way to sell products. Luckily, we can purchase the game app and get rid of all the marketing because it is so irritating! I do not purchase any products I see through a smart phone game! Who is buying these products through these outlets to make the businesses want to continue with this extremely irritating marketing? This type of in your face while I am playing my game marketing just makes me take not of the product and NOT ever buy from that company! Does anyone else feel the same way about those type of ads?

 Please read the 12 ways companies are planning on, or already doing, new marketing strategies for the youth market. Number 7 is good as that companies are realizing that what they are saying must be relevant or it will just "drive the youth away". The only good thing I saw was in Number 12; that more jobs will need to be created to keep up with the every changing youth market in advertising! That would be a plus!

Like, really?

As we have studied this semester, culture and media production by girls is largely overlooked and undervalued. This article from the “The New York Times” by Douglas Quenqua explores the idea of language development by girls. Girls and young women are acknowledged to be creators of trends in linguists that will become adopted by the population at large. Often dismissed as “immature or even stupid” and “cute”, vocal trends such as peppering sentences with “like”, are more “sophisticated” mechanisms that add nuance to communication. The ubiquity of the trends has been studied and interestingly, among older participants, men used them the most.

What Kind of Feminist Are YOU?

As a Women's Studies major, one thing I usually get from people who are confused about what that means, is the phrase, "I'm not a feminist, but..." This phrase is usually ended with things such as. "I believe women are equal to men," "I think women should have equal rights," or "I'm not sexist," etc.

Well..let's check out the merriam-webster.com definition: "the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes."

Is it just me, or does that sound exactly like what the people who were saying, "I'm not a feminist but..." seemed to be saying that they believe? Feminism gets a bad reputation, because it is so largely misunderstood. There are so many kinds of feminism, but at its core the majority of feminist beliefs are based in a theory of equality. And since this is the case, most people who say that they aren't feminists (if they believe in equality between/among genders) actually are.

There are, however various forms of feminism. (Liberal, radical, global, Marxist, Women of Color, etc.) So for the feminists who read this blog, how do YOU identify?

To learn more about the various types of feminism, click here!

Miss Representation

There is a great documentary just recently released on DVD, that deals directly with girls and the media called Miss Representation. You can find the trailer at http://vimeo.com/18985647. I also found a wonderful Q&A with the director, http://entertainment.time.com/2012/04/10/miss-representation-doc-director-on-why-the-media-still-hates-women/, where she discusses the ongoing problem with the view of women in the media.

This is a very important film for all women and young girls to see, because it deals directly with the portrayal of women in the media and how it effects young girls. It is amazing to see how still women have to fight these overly sexual and degrading images of women that is being forced upon us by a patriarchal society. Join the fight to empower women. Watch this film and make sure to visit there site at http://www.missrepresentation.org/.

Ten Things I Want To Tell Teenage Girls | Kate Conner

Ten Things I Want To Tell Teenage Girls | Kate Conner

Loved this post from Kate Conner.  I honestly think these are things that all teenage girls need to hear.

Don't Trust The B...

In another course I am taking for my Women's Studies minor we've been talking recently about how popular the word 'bitch' has become.
A lot of college age girls, and younger too, I'm sure, use the word to greet their friends, and use it as a sort-of compliment.
Ex: "You're hair is so beautiful, you're such a bitch!"
While it may not be harmful in that context, it could turn into something harmful. In my opinion using the term so loosely gives other people to use the word for other meanings, and that's not good.
ABC has a new show called "Don't Trust The Bitch in Apartment 23" that aired last night. I was curious about the ratings and if viewers found the somewhat dark content humorous and I found a few articles that I thought some others in the class might be interested in.
Does anyone think that having a show like this on TV might encourage younger girls to actually act this way?

http://popwatch.ew.com/2012/04/12/dont-trust-the-b-in-apt-23-chloe/

http://www.the-leader.com/entertainment/x876163527/ABC-hints-at-B-word-in-2-new-shows-about-women

Teen Girls and Prom Dresses

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/05/prom-dresses-should-schoo_n_1406262.html?ncid=webmail12

In this article, teen girls going to proms this year are wanting to wear skimpy scandalous dresses. The parents and the schools are trying to crack down and say no to dresses that are showing too much cleavage, with slits up to thighs, and extremely low cut in the back. It seems these teen girls are wanting to dress like the 'Dancing With The Stars' female dancers!
The teens are saying that this is their one night to break the school rules and to dress how they would like to look beautiful for the prom. So why has beauty gone to showing breasts, hips, backs, and thighs? It seems the more we try to help young girls respect themselves we are overrun by the medias ideaof how a woman should dress. It is sad that young girls today are thinking the only way they can look pretty is to show off as much skin as possible. If you could only see my prom dresses from  1975 and 1976!! lol

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/05/prom-dresses-should-schoo_n_1406262.html?ncid=webmail12